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Oh how wise you are. Yes, indeed trying new strategies does nothing to help someone change.It doesn't. All of us repeat the past. Freud had a term for that... Repetition Compulsion ... What we do, you, I, all of us do when there are problems from our past is compulsively repeat the past in the hope of changing it but low and behold, nothing ever changes. Only Psychoanalysis can. Only Psychoanalysts are trained to go back to the past with a person and help them work through their past issues. So you are right on about that.
Ok, so now to your question: How long? To give you an honest answer, I don't know. I don't know because I don't know anything about you. I don't know if your problems stem from early ego development issues or are what we call oedipal issues. So you would need to enter the process over some time to know how long. And even then, it's not always easy to know. But I will say this --- hey, if it's going to help by all means, do it. It is certainly worth it.
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About the Expert
Dr. Shirley Schaye
PhD F.I.P.A.
New York, United States of America
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Anger Management, Child or Adolescent Issues, Divorce, Compulsive Disorders, OCD, Other, Anxiety or Fears, ADHD, Finding Your Purpose in Life, Gay Lesbian Issues, Child Assessments, Parenting, Women, Sex Therapy, Loss or Grief, Infertility or Adoption, Dissociative Disorders, Life Coaching, Trauma and PTSD, Personality Disorders, Relationship Issues, Eating Disorders, Depression
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