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Alcoholism for him Produces Inappropriate Behaviour
My husband was at a party on the weekend and he got drunk and he grabbed the hostesses breasts when they were alone in the kitchen together. It was a terrible scene and probably the end of a friendship. This s not the first time that he has done something like this but every time it happens he is drunk and then he just denies responsibility for it the next day and acts very sorry about what he did. I would like to understand why he does this and if being drunk means he really cannot control his actions. Does he have some sort of sexual compulsive disease or something like this. He is a really sweet guy almost all of the time so this is really not in his normal character, otherwise I'd certainly not be sticking around to find out why he keeps putting me in this situation.
Read answer →Pornography is an ADDICTION
Watching pornographic movies makes me feel more aggressive. I watch a lot of porn every day. Sometimes I even get in fights after watching a lot of porn. Is this normal?
Read answer →Sexual Addiction is an Obsessional Compulsive Disorder
I have probably cheated on my wife 75 or more times. Every time I do it I feel awful and I regret it. I still regret every single girl and if I could take them all back I would. I do not mean to cheat but once I get an itch I forget how terrible I feel after the sex and I just have to have the conquest. I am trying to understand why I do this and I am reading about sex addiction and how one indicator of sex addiction is losing control over your sexual behaviors. I cheated last night and I feel like crap right now. Does what I described sound like losing control? I am not sure myself because I am always the one making the decisions that start me down the road to cheating. When I am away for work and I go down to the bar I know how it’s probably going to end and I choose to go but then once things get set in motion there’s no way I can stop myself. Does what I have described sound like a person with sex addiction or just a person with low morals?
Read answer →Pornography Addiction
Can you be a sex addict if you don’t have sex? I go to strip clubs every night and I get lap dances but I never take any of the girls home even though I could. I don’t think I have a problem because I never take any of the girls out and it is very possible to do this. But I am a bit worried because sometimes I decide not to go a club some night and then I find it really hard to stop myself from going. The only reason I ever don’t want to go is because sometimes I have money problems from my strip club visits every night. Actually I owe a lot of money around but I can’t pay anyone back because I am always spending more than I am making in the clubs. So is it possible to be addicted to going to strip clubs?
Read answer →Having Sex with over 140 people is not Normal
I am 23 and I have had over 140 sexual partners since I began having sex at the age of 15. I have never had a serious relationship but I am attractive and I have never had a problem finding guys for one night stands. I do have a problem making close friends, in fact the only real friends I have these days are the friends with benefits type and I’m not sure how sincerely these guys are really interested in me, once the sex is removed. I am feeling kind of depressed about my life right now. I am wondering if I have a problem with sex. It makes me good before and during but then after I feel kind of low. I realize that I have slept with a lot more guys than the average person. I never thought that this was a big deal but now I am wondering if I have a problem. Maybe this is connected to the reason why I have a hard time with close relationships. I am worried that I have a sex addiction. How can I know if the way is normal or not?
Read answer →Voyeurism: Close your Blinds!
Is there anything wrong with voyeurism? My new neighbors do not close their blinds at night and they are very sexually active. I noticed it one night when I went downstairs for some water and I could see everything across the way. Now I am sneaking out of bed at night and looking across with binoculars almost every night for hours at a time. I find it exciting but I am not sure if I am doing something wrong or if this is going to lead to something worse. I feel quite guilty about it afterward.
Read answer →Sex with others is OK if your partner is in agreement with having an open relationship. If she is not then it's not ok.
Is what is labeled sex addiction in a large percentage of cases simply an attempt by the medical establishment to further pathologize normal human behaviors for fun and profit? I believe in open relationships and I do not believe in monogamy and I do not believe that men are designed for monogamy from an evolutionary perspective. I have always enjoyed open relationships and now my partner seeks to close what was happily open and our 'therapist' tries to paint me with a sickness label that I do not have. I will have sex with 1 or more new partners per week on average. I enjoy this and I am not deceptive about what I do nor has my behavior escalated over the last 20 years. I am just a man doing what feels good, and that is having as much sex as I can without hurting anyone. Does that sound like sex addiction to anyone?
Read answer →Sexual Addiction is an Obsessional Compulsive Disorder
My boyfriend says he is a sex addict. From what I understand there is no real proof that such a thing really exists or not. Is sex addiction a real thing? Are there research studies that prove that it really exists or is it just something that cheaters can use as a convenient excuse for dog like behavior?
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